The 35 Secrets of Happy and Healthy Relationships. Happy relationships thrive off of some common baseline truths. Here are the top 35 features.
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APPRECIATION : Let each other know how much you appreciate each other. You may already know but hearing it from each other is always better.
BEST FRIENDS : Be best friends preferably before being boyfriend-girlfriend. Take time to know each other so the relationship will be a deep one. Tell each other about your crushes, dreams and problems. Make sure he/she is your best friend before getting engaged. The strong bond of friendship will help you both survive tough times.
ANNIVERSARIES : Always celebrate! Whether it’s the 1st or the 50th, each year together is a triumph.
FUN : Have fun together! This means keeping the fun & spontaneity that was there in the early days. Allow yourselves to get silly – shower together, pee w/the door open etc. Being able to make each other laugh & see the lighter, crazier, absurd side is the best way to get through all the differences in personalities, adjustments in lifestyle & opposing viewpoints.
GOALS : Make sure you have similar goals. It would be difficult to keep your bond intact if your views are complete opposite.
BOND : Make it a point to spend time together often but leave room for each other. Also spend time alone w/ each other, so that at the end of the day you could both share your experiences. This way, you stay interesting with your partner.
PRIORITIES : If one says it’s important, then it is! Prioritize each other among other things!
CHANGING EACH OTHER : Don’t marry an as…le, j…. or a bi…. (an unsuitable person) You’ll never change each other.
COMPLIMENTS : Always compliment each other. This will prevent feelings of resentment & thinking that one is being taken for granted.
SORRY : Say sorry when you’re wrong.
SURPRISES : No matter how long you’ve known each other, be open to surprises, both good or bad.
DATE: Keep doings things that you both enjoy, do them together. Make time & continue to date to keep the romance – look good, smell good to maintain physical attraction
DIFFERENCES : Celebrate differences. Never force your ideologies down each other’s throat. Give up trying to turn your partner into you. Accept differences, appreciate them.
FIGHTS : Fight with the aim to resolve the issue. Don’t outdo each other. The longer you extend the fight. The more chances that you’ll say something hurtful that you don’t really mean. As mad as you were w/ your partner, he/she is still the person who laughs at your jokes & thinks you’re hot. Hear each other out, don’t dig up old issues. Choose your battles. Make sure the fight will be worth it & that something will change in the relationship as a result of the fight.
FLAWS : Know that the perfect person does not exist. Know that just as there are things that you love about him/her, there will be things that will make you go crazy. We are only human with our own flaws.
GRUDGES : Quit tabulating grudges. Let it off. Discuss it, then trash it, don’t recycle it.
KEEPING IT HOT : Keep it hot by traveling to diff. places together. A new setting will do wonders. Always have skin contact – be it holding hands, a massage or just plain leg rubbing.
HONESTY : Don’t lie or hide things. The problem will only get bigger.
KNOW EACH OTHER : Learn each other’s interest. It really keeps the conversation flowing!
HUG : A hug can be far better more intimate than a kiss.
IDENTITY : Don’t lose your personality – that’s why he/she fell in love with you. Have separate interest & activities to keep your individual, & to be able to contribute more to the relationship.
INDEPENDENCE : Having your own income means you’re the boss in your life.
IN-LAWS : Make rooms for the in-laws.
INTENTIONS : Wish each other well. Don’t wish each other worst.
ISSUESS : peak up about the awkward stuff now, like money & sex. The earlier, the better.
LISTEN : Listen, listen, listen. Hear each other out especially during arguments.
LOOK GOOD : Mind your appearance! Stay fit & healthy for each other.
LOVE : It all boils down to your love, chemistry & respect for each other.
MEMORIES : Remind each other of the old days. Do something that you used to do for each other before. It may even be corny but it made you two together. Experience new things together- from dining into a new restaurant to experiencing street food together to exploring to new places. It’s the little surprises that make great memories.
MIND READING : No matter how long you’ve been together, do not think that you can read each other’s mind.
NEEDS : Be good to yourself,then be good to your partner. That’s what love is all about. Think about your partner. Will it make him/her happy?
Will she/he enjoy it? Consider each other’s feelings. Be very attentive & sensitive to each other’s needs, physically & emotionally, that way your partner learns to do the same for you. Never take your partner for granted.
SPACE : Give each other space. Have dates with your girlfriends, have your boy’s night out. If you can’t trust each other with this, then don’t get married.
TEAMWORK : Think for two & always work as a team. Consult each other before making a decision because everything will always affect both of you. Strengthen couple power. In many ways, we have to decide based on what is best for the relationship in favor of our individual selves.
TALK : Tell each other’s stories. Life goes by so fast & its easy to see how easily couple can grow apart. Whenever something funny, scary, exciting or juicy happened to you or to someone you know, tell each other about it & have your partner do the same. Keep each other in the loop of life, even by email if you have to.
SUPPORT : Support each other’s dream. Be willing to follow your passions, support your partner in his/her decisions & create new ones together.
Two heads are better than one.
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